Most men today get easily offended when their manhood is challenged because of irresponsibilities. How can you call yourself a man when your priority is a new car, but your child’s mother is not getting half the amount of your monthly car payment for child support? How can you call yourself a man when your objective is always the next piece of ass, but not the quality time you need to spend with your child or your family?
You can’t call yourself a man if you’re not responsible. Being responsible doesn’t mean you can blame your lack of motivation or lack of work on the economy. Staying at home and complaining is not gonna help you get where you want to be. You have to make moves in order for anything to transpire. An intelligent man is a thinker who finds solutions to problems. You have to be a good role model for your children; teach them how get out of a bind; show them encouragement, get motivated; be a good father; be a good husband; be a good friend and take ownership for your mistakes.
Most of us didn’t grow up with the best example of a good man in our lives, and that is all the more reason why we should break the cycle. Don’t blame your faults on your father, be a better man than he was. Achieve more and let go of the excuses because they will weigh you down.
What makes you think you’re a good man?
Ladies, share with us the good values of your good man.