How far would you go to please your mate?

Keeping up with the Freaky Friday theme, I would like to talk about the limit or limitless ways that a person is willing to please a partner. With the emergence of a new sexual revolution fueled by music viedos and other films and television shows, people are becoming more open-minded when it comes to sex and pleasing themselves. It’s a known fact that most men fantasize about a threesome, but  the need to experiment with another woman is also becoming popular among some women. While most people keep in perspective that it is only a fantasy, there’s a minority few who go the long way to make their fantasy come true.

There will always be a double standard when it comes to sexuality between men and women, however, more men are also becoming open-minded and liberal to the idea of allowing their women the pleasure of their fantasy. Some men are not intimidated with the idea of their woman bringing another man into the bedroom. Kudos to them and I guess it’s good for the women who want such experience, but I’m opting out of this one.

Are we moving towards a society that lacks moral judgment, or is our mind taking us to unlimited boundaries sexually?

14 replies
  1. Chanel
    Chanel says:

    It’s about time for a sexual revolution, it seems like the last one was in the “roaring ’20s” when flappers donned miniskirts!

    Men aren’t shy about the fact that they pleasure themselves and fantasize about having a menage a trois. It’s time for women to embrace our sexuality and be open-minded about trying new things–if that means masturbation, self-stimulation or a one-night stand.

    If women learn to please ourselves more, pleasing our mate will come naturally.

  2. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    Well I love being open. Especially when it comes to someone I am committed to. No restrictions. I’ve tried so many things with my significant other that it’s coming to a point where I am searching for new things to do. I’ve givin up my booty’s virginity, I’ve had a threesome and more. I’m now thinking of double penetration! Ummmm. I have to warm up.


  3. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    I am sure he wasn’t having it when we first started dating but I think I broke him in real good. He is saying yes to far more things than before. I just take my time and take it easy on him, showing him the plus side of things.


  4. Dolores
    Dolores says:


    What do we want ladies? I don’t know about the rest of you, but me? I want to keep my man happy, because when he’s happy I am happy. I wanna please him because I know in return I will get something greater and yes, I wanna keep him home where his heart should be when it comes to sex.

    Life is too short, fuck the moral judgment!
    There is no boundaries when it comes to having sex with my partner.
    Call me freaky, but it’s always been one of my fantasies to be with a woman @ least once, so why not have my cake & eat it @ the same time?

    Being with an open-minded man makes all the differences. Let’s say my man wants to have a threesome n he approaches me with the subject. Hell! I would be making all the accommodation possible to make it happened and damn well participate 100%. It’s all about keeping my man happy while I take pleasure outta it.

    Don’t get me wrong am not a lesbian. Over the years I’ve learned in order to have a good relationship I have to bend the rules while I secretly fulfil my fantasy. As far as bringing another man into the bedroom it’s a dangerous game!what will happen the morning after!

  5. D
    D says:

    Although am all 4 it, but a couple should think twice b4 having another man into their bedroom. I have to admit with a finger inside my asshole and the heavenly dick inside my pussy it takes me to a place where I have never been let alone double penetration.

  6. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    I am my husbands freak. There are some things that I will not do and he is totally satisfied with that.
    Sexuality is being taken out of proportion by the media and is leading to unlimited boundaries. First there are women added to the bed, then men and next week it may be children. Being penetrated once, twice, three times, by animals and electric devices……Is there no limit?
    Yes.. Society is leading to little to no moral judgement in sexuality and there seems to be little to no boundaries. What does this say about the world?

  7. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    blush blush and more blush… the prude added to the mix…. i love reading this stuff… exploring the possibilities of eating a host of moral judgement… the sexual revolution born of necessity since the beginning of time, what we do now is not as freaky as being described above…perhaps risky if you are found out..will someone..mother sister friend judge you…or is this without apology

  8. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    If am satisfy by my man sexually, why would I wanna have a one night stand n risk of jeopardizing my relationship? Having a one night stand while i have my man means one thing to me! He is not doing his job right. My freakyness is for my man only and if there is another party added whenever we wanna get freaky, it would be both of our decision.

  9. Richard Jeanty
    Richard Jeanty says:

    Based on some of the responses that are posted, I can see that some people are more open-minded than others. Sexual freedom is only relevant to one’s personal relationship. I guess two people with identical views might feel okay to walk around butt naked and share their partners with a stranger. There’s a possible chance that it can be healthy for a particular relationship. However, I do feel that we are still human no matter what. Curiosity often gets the best of us and it’s what may happen afterwards, the indiscretion between the two parties that had the most fun, that might worry me. Then again, who ever said monogamy was natural, right?

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