The reality of black folks around the world.

This is how the game works, in case you haven’t been paying attention:

Saddam was a US, France and British ally chosen to run Iraq, until he ran amok of their guidelines of exploitation of his people and country, and it was time for him to go. That’s right, the US helped put him in power. Mugabe was placed in power by the British, until he’d awoken from his coma and realized how he was being used by the British to manipulate his own people. He was Sir Mugabe, and then he became the enemy when he started looking out for his people. Bin Laden was trained and financed by the US, until he started opening his eyes and realized the US was just exploiting him and the Afghan people. Papa Doc Duvalier was also placed in power in Haiti by the US, and they even allowed his son to take over after he died. Haitian politic is still controlled by the US. Fidel Castro was aided by the US during his revolution. They turned on him when he realized US policies didn’t benefit his people or country. Gaddafi had been ruling Libya with US assistance for years, until he decided he wanted to build a stronger and united Africa. Clinton and Obama orchestrated his murder.

Having said that, many of you strive to be like white people every day, without understanding the conning and evil ways of white people. Their history alone is not enough to make you weary of white people. Slavery, the annihilation of the Indians, the genocide of Africans, and many other atrocities committed by white people around the world are still not enough for you to stop striving to be like them. You know why? Because white people have used the media around the world to sell their propaganda and narrative of goodwill to the world. We have a migration issue worldwide where people are trying to run from their country to seek better opportunities in mostly white countries. Why do you think that is? It’s because white people have created chaos in these people’s countries, and have also stolen or control all their resources, which leaves them in a dire position where their survival is dependent on the rules and guidelines set by white people. White people act very privileged when it comes to immigration, even though their forefathers stole everything that is passed down to them. Their privileged asses won’t own up to the destruction their forefathers have caused around the world, and they continue to cause to the world. White people are quick to tell you about poverty all over Africa, but their asses can’t stay away from Africa. From Botswana, Zimbabwe, Swaziland, South Africa and beyond, these white people have stolen land, wealth and resources from the natives, leaving them dirt poor. In case you are unaware, land ownership = wealth. America and Canada are not the only places in the world that white people have stolen from the natives, while humiliating and annihilating them. They have done this worldwide. Every single group of white people have stolen resources and land from parts of the world that didn’t belong to them. The Portuguese, French, British, Dutch, Americans, Germans, and Italians have all gotten involved in the theft of land and culture. We’re lucky the Ethiopians aren’t speaking Italian. White people clearly want you to believe they’ve had nothing to do with migration, so they set up immigration guidelines all over Europe, America and Canada to force people to believe what’s happening in the world today because of their theft, genocide and destruction, is not their fault.
Every colonialist country in Europe and America benefit from their former colonies, and still benefit from these independent countries today. Independent countries in Africa pay over 280 billion dollars annually to France. The rest of them pay billions annually to the British, Portuguese and Dutch. American territories are controlled by America, and when they need the colonialists during times of need, they stay in the dark with no electricity for over 69 days. Puerto Rico is not a state, so Puerto Ricans are treated like stepchildren. Imagine that Puerto Rico, the Virgin Islands and many other US territories that provide money to the US every year, are treated like shit because the inhabitants are not white. Imagine how they feel about a place like Haiti that defied white supremacy? Jamaicans, Barbadians, Guadeloupeans, St. Marten, Grenada, Trinidad and Tobago, and other Caribbean countries under French, Dutch and British rules are no better off. All this humanitarian bullshit that white people have sold you on, is done because it benefits them. These former slave colonies provide money to these colonialists to this day. It’s been about dominance for white people from the onset. They even fought each other over the colonies. You know who we must respect in all this? the Asians. Other than the Philippines, Guam, Indonesia, Papua New Guinea, and Vietnam that experienced colonization at the hands of white people, for the most part, they have stood strong. North Korea was colonized by Japan, but they never forgot about it.
The entire continent of Africa was colonized, except Ethiopia, but African leaders have done nothing to prevent that from happening again. There isn’t one super power nation in Africa that can defend the lives and rights of Africans against white aggression. White people have put Africans and black people around the world at their mercy to do whatever they want to do with them. We are too deaf, dumb and blind to learn from our history. We’re so caught up with the idea of being kings and queens, we never took the time to focus on building the military might to defend the fictitious thrones that we have created in our heads. No country in Africa is indestructible by white people’s military might. We learned absolutely nothing from the Haitian revolution. We haven’t caught up with technology or weapon technology. If we were ever to engage in battle with them, our only recourse would be to appeal to the somewhat human side of white liberals who will find ways to exploit us, while trying to act like they’re helping us. We’re not built to fight against anybody in the world. There isn’t one African country that can go to Libya and rescue the black people being auctioned as slaves. That alone should tell you why we were enslaved to begin with. That shit is sad!
The past has not taught black people anything. We have resigned to the idea that white people should be in charge of the world, until the Asians decide to take over.

It’s about time we create our own narrative.

The hilarity of people never cease to amaze me. So the world holds these beauty contests every year, where a woman plays the role of a representative for her country to be displayed on television for all to see. In other words, a bunch of women eager to be objectified are displayed on television for people to judge their objectification, and the world sees nothing wrong with that. Maybe I live under a rock, but I have yet to see a Mr. Universe pageant, unless it’s a body building competition. The body builders are expected to look like anything, except handsome. Only their physique is judged.
We have a bunch of moronic feminists fighting for equality, but most of them stay quiet about these beauty pageants where women are objectified and adored simply for their beauty. We all know those questions asked of them are asked as a measure of their stupidity, based on the fact that they are beautiful. We’re often stunned when a beautiful woman is able to express herself in front of a man like Trump who needs to take lessons of self-expression himself from a third grader. Most of the moronic judges shouldn’t even be on anybody’s panel.
Anyway, moving on. Beauty pageants are so complexed, but wrapped in its fiber is the definition of beauty imposed by white supremacy and racism. Ms. South Africa has won the Ms. Universe pageant this year. I don’t follow, nor do I watch beauty pageants, but looking at the picture of a white European become the face of a country where the population is 80% black, is bothersome to me. Well, it’s not just a South African issue. This problem exists all over the Caribbean, Africa, America and the rest of the world. The straight up and down white beauty with no tits and ass, and thin enough to hide behind a needle, and too small to swallow noodles white woman has been the standard of beauty for too long. Ms. Jamaica was fierce, stunning and beautiful as she rocked her natural Afro to display to the world the strength of her African beauty, but some ignorant, low self esteemed ass black people thought she had a better chance to win, if she wore a European weave.
A lot of people have issues with me being pro-black, because they’re so in love with being whitewashed. I do have my preferences. I love my black women natural and confident. I see no reason to embrace someone’s beauty who’s not comfortable embracing it herself. If you strive to be European with your looks, by adding contacts to your eyes, a European weave, and a lightening cream to your skin, because white people have convinced you that you’re not beautiful as a black woman, then I will not allow you to project your feelings of insecurity onto me as a man. I don’t want you and I don’t even see you. I’m tired of seeing damn near white-looking women representing countries all over Africa, Haiti, Jamaica, Barbados and other Caribbean islands at these “pageants” created by white men to put women on display. In addition, the underlying message is always that white women set the standard for beauty. We applauded Michelle Obama for wearing her hair natural after she left the white house, but she never once went public with her natural look while she was at the white house. What exactly are we telling the world? Black hair is not made for public appearances? White people have had over 400 years to construct the narrative for everything related to our daily lives, but when are we going to say enough is enough?

Whiting away our pains and dysfunctions!

There’s so much wrong with the black family, most people think they can right the wrongs by marrying white, as if white people didn’t create the dysfunctions for black people, and as if white people don’t have dysfunctions themselves.
White people’s divorce rate would be just as high as black people’s, if they were forced to deal with the obstacles that black people have to face on a daily basis. The resilience of black folks is the reason that the black race is even still around. White people and the rest of the world have done all they can to break the black race, but we’ve managed to glue the pieces of the broken puzzle that we have been dealt, and try to keep it all together.
Rich white folks jump off buildings and commit suicide daily over bullshit that black people could overcome with a 40 ounce. White people murder their entire family over bullshit that black people could overcome over a game of Dominoes with some random dudes in the neighborhood. White people murder indiscriminately and have an appetite for violence that no psychologist has dared to explore, because white supremacy trumps white dysfunction. You have a president in the white house currently who’s the poster child of white dysfunction, but some white people see absolutely nothing wrong with that.
What do you think happen when mixed babies are born? They also inherit those dysfunctional traits from white people, and they pass them on to many other generations of black people they may end up having children with. The nature of African people is communal. I don’t have to even choose a specific group of black people to highlight this point. Whether it’s an African American, Haitian, Jamaican, or Ghanaian family, black people in general feel a responsibility to their kin and community. The most successful person in every black family usually ends up helping the rest of the family members that are less fortunate. That is our nature. Every black NBA player, NFL player, singer, rapper, black mogul, lawyer, doctor have at some point in their lives look out for family members. Now, the selfish group that we have become came from the diluted blood of white people passed on to our forefathers against their will. White people like to take as much resources as possible from others, so that one family can become prominent. Have you paid attention to the Queen of England lately? What about the Rockefellers and many other rich white families? Why are they so rich, while so many people in their country live in poverty? Who started that selfish, greedy, rich trend? Look at most of the white billionaires in the world? They give back because of what they can gain! They live so lavishly, they don’t give a fuck about those living on the street. The villages in Africa used to be about all the people in the village, not some of the people. Our blocks used to be about all the black kids in the neighborhood, not some of them. We used to look out for each other. However, we are now becoming more white than ever, and community has an entire different meaning to us. White people didn’t invent block parties. They didn’t invent potluck. They didn’t invent many things that black people have now forgone and given credit to white people for having created them.

We have lost our way by becoming more white than we need to be. Even Africans are more white than ever. It is in white people’s nature to be greedy and want to control all the resources of the world. I won’t even talk about their appetite for illicit drugs. We inherited that bullshit from them as well. Heroin epidemic anyone? Black people were never like that, until we started mingling with white people. Communal is in our DNA!

Hate is killing us!

It’s difficult to function in dysfunction. So many of us have grown up and gotten accustomed to dysfunction, we have no idea what functional means anymore. “To Err is human,” but too many of us have lived through the errors and failures of our parents and grandparents. Black folks hate to hear the word “failure,” but without acknowledging our failures, we cannot succeed. Failure is often the road to success, because it gives us the opportunity to learn from our mistakes. Hindsight is 20/20 and we can’t go back in time to correct our mistakes, so the best corrective action is acknowledgement. Some people still don’t get it, though, as millions of folks repeat the same mistakes over and over daily.
It’s easy for folks to address drug addiction and develop sympathy in their hearts for the victims, even when the victims have succumbed to drugs over and over again. “Relapse” is cautioned and it gives way to redemption in a way that most people have adhered to it as a way to forgive drug users. We’re even able to forgive murderers sometimes, but why is it so difficult for people to forgive love? Once our heart is wrapped up into that special person, we can become so possessive and so guarded, our love can turn to hate at the snap of a finger for the most minute incident.
In the black community, many people are suffering from hate addiction, and most of us don’t even know it. I’m not talking about the kind of hatred spewed by racist white people toward other groups for no reason. I’m talking about the hatred that we harbor toward one another in almost every aspect of our lives. Why do we hate each other so easily? Sometimes being head over heel for someone makes it that much easier to hate them when the flame of that love starts to flicker.
On a daily basis, I hear so many black men and women express their hatred for one another, I’m starting to wonder if the psychological scars of slavery are still playing a major role in the way we interact, treat, and love one another. I’ve seen hatred built from a simple act committed by one person against another in a relationship, after a couple has been together for many years. Something as simple as a missed phone call can drive some people over the edge, and destroy a perfectly loving relationship. Well, maybe not so perfect. I have seen couples who have been together for 20 years or more, grow to hate each other to the point where they can’t even be in the same room with each other. What can someone do to us that is so bad after 20 years of loving them that we can’t stand to be in the same room as them? Think about it, hate is way more powerful than love, because hate always trumps love so easily. No pun intended. A simple indiscretion can send a loving relationship into turmoil in a matter of seconds. It always seems like hate is always lurking, and we get so easily wrapped up in it, we can’t help our reaction to allow certain situations to become hateful.
I’m not gonna act all holier than thou and say I’ve never hated anybody because of what they’ve done to me, but I’m learning to suppress hate and give love a chance. Now, please understand from which perspective I’m coming from. I’m not advocating love toward those people who go out of their way to hate us for no goddamn reason, other than their prejudice and racism. Nah, that shit I will fight fire with fire! I’m talking about not allowing past relationships to affect the way our heart should function in current relationships. I’m talking about making up for those mistakes by becoming a better person to the next person we’re with. I’m talking about letting go of that dead weight that has held us down for no goddamn reason, and allowing ourselves to be the catalyst for anger toward a possible new love. Black folks are in need of healing, or atonement toward one another, if you will. We can no longer allow a past relationship with an ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, ex-husband or ex-boyfriend to determine how we’re going to love a current partner. No matter how painful we perceived a relationship to have been, we must heal ourselves enough in a way that will forgive those people, in order to start anew and give love another chance. We can’t cover hate with love, because hate will seep through and destroy our love again. If a relationship is not built on the foundation of love, hate will easily destroy it.
Even though I’ve written several books that highlight some of the best love stories, I’m usually not one to be talking about love personally and openly. I’m inspired by my daughters and the ability to allow myself to seek love and heal from my past. I have also been paying attention to my behavior and those around me, and I noticed that too many of us have allowed hate to win. We are harboring hatred toward people that we shouldn’t allow to have that much power over our lives. There are tons of people living rent free in our hurting hearts because of hatred. I have no idea what the recipe to overcome hatred is, but I know it feels a lot better to love than to hate. We should not allow white people to pass their inability to love everyone in the world on to us. We’ve seen so much hatred from them, we are subconsciously becoming a product of their influence. However, it is to our detriment that we’re allowing their inhumane habits to influence us.
We’ll never have a strong black community, if we are unable to forgive each other and look forward to love.

A superficial world!

The truth of the matter is that we are living in a superficial world, and people in general aspire to meet the superficial standards set by those who push that belief.
First of all, attractive people tend to have a higher success rate at a better life just because they are attractive. It really starts from birth. Cute babies invade our televisions, print ads and every place where they’re selling baby products, and then it graduates to toddlers, teens, and adult models. I have yet to see an ugly baby representing a brand anywhere or an adult model being adored for being unattractive. Second of all, those attractive people who know the worth of their beauty, can pretty much live off their looks. They can become models, actors, hosts and a bunch of other professions that are exclusive to looks without any formal education. In addition, if those attractive people choose to do so, they can find sugar daddies and sugar mommies with enough low self esteem to take care of them. Nobody’s ugly baby is getting praised by the world. Let’s get that straight.
It’s not fair or politically correct to refer to someone as ugly, but yet the word has been invented in every language. Ugly people in a superficial world can become desirable by making themselves part of that superficiality by obtaining wealth. Trump is a perfect example of the human desire for superficiality. Any ugly man can become desirable if he has money. There are many ways for superficiality to be expressed. Some people buy luxury cars, mansions, yachts, private planes and other vanity items to feed the desires of this superficial world, while broker people use brand name clothing as a tool to mask their insecurities to survive in a superficial world.
There are different levels to this superficial bullshit as well. Poorer people tend to mask their insecurities with superficiality more than anybody. They clown other poor people for shopping at affordable stores, for wearing brands that are known to be less costly, and for just being poor.
As humans, we tend to hate anyone who shows their superficiality outwardly in a brazen way, but we use humility to accept the same superficiality. An ugly man can be very undesirable to women while walking the street in regular clothing. However, that same man can become instantly attractive to a sector of society if he’s behind the wheel of a Rolls Royce, Bentley or Lamborghini. Superficiality works more to the benefit of men, because more women tend to be caught in the superficiality that a man has to offer. I’m not saying there aren’t any greedy men out there who won’t mind being with an unattractive wealthy woman, but most men aren’t built that way. Facebook and Instagram have helped open the floodgates of superficiality.
Superficiality starts early with most people in society. Some parents, unfortunately, introduce their children to the superficial world as young as a newborn. They start with brand name clothing and toys, which often develop to bigger things that sometimes force their children to do illegal shit to obtain them. Society is also perfectly normal with the superficial. As a matter of fact, the more superficial you can make your status in society, the more respect you get. Superficiality is not just about money and looks, though, it also involves education. Obama became the first black president and was given a chance, because he attended Harvard University. That’s actually one of the most superficial bullshit in society, an ivy league education. However, look at the idiots who received an ivy league education; they include Trump and Bush. Ivy league doesn’t necessarily equate to smart or intelligent.
The more we aspire to become an advanced civilized society, the more superficial we’ll become. People no longer aspire to become millionaires, because billionaires are in vogue. Our entire perspective shifted when branding became part of the American fiber.
I’m not sure where we’re headed, but cosmetically enhanced titties , asses, faces and bodies will be the least of our worries.

It takes all of us to break the cycle!

It takes all of us to break the cycle

I’ve addressed this topic many times in the past, but this on-going phenomenon seems to be a problem that a lot of people can’t seem to resolve because of selfishness.
If you were pissed as a little boy because your father was nowhere to be found in your life, and you turn out to be an angry man because of it, you should try everything in your power to make sure you are the best father to your own children. There’s absolutely no reason and no excuse to be so selfish, as to force your own children to endure the same trials, tribulations, and the experience of an absent father. In addition, you should also be aware of the struggles of a single mother, because you witnessed firsthand the struggles your mother faced, while raising you as a single mother. For that reason alone, you should do everything possible to ease the pain and the burden on the woman who agreed to carry your child/children. Being a father doesn’t mean you have to necessarily be with the mother in an amorous relationship. I understand that people break up sometimes, and relationships don’t work out, but your child is forever. Forget child support, your presence as a man is more important than any amount of money you can contribute to a child’s life. I’m also not absolving men of financial responsibility as fathers. Children have needs! The attitude of turning your back on both, your child and the woman who gave birth to him/her, is absurd, because you should be aware that a woman can never be a father to your child. Having a child with a woman is not a package deal where you get to break up with both over foolishness. Your child came from your loins, and will forever be connected to your lineage. You can be as angry as you want after breaking up with the mother of your child, but you should never let that get in the way of being a father to your child. That mindset is self-serving and defeating to the bond that you need to establish with your child. You must also remember, a woman will most likely harbor more hatred toward you, when you decide to become an absent father to an innocent child who had nothing to do with your adult foolishness. Some men believe, for some odd reason, they’re hurting the woman by turning their back on their children, but they’re really hurting themselves. You are the one who’s going to miss on the opportunity to connect with your child. You are the one who’s going to have regrets for not having been there to see your child develop. You are the one who will be shut out of that child’s life when that child becomes an adult. Most of all, you are the one who will most likely be destitute for having turned your back on your children. Karma usually enjoys those absent-father scenarios.

As far as the women are concerned, please use a condom, choose your men wisely, wait at least a couple of years to get to know someone before you allow yourself to get pregnant, and use your mother’s struggles as single parent as reference to keep from becoming a single mother with child from a bum ass man yourself. It’s not that difficult. The “D” might be good for one night or two, or even a few months, but is it worth all the pain and agony of a child that you’re gonna have to look at for a lifetime? Your anger at the child will not make a responsible man out of his father. The ball is in your court, and you don’t have to get pregnant unless you want to. Please choose better men to have children with. Many of the kids of this generation are sorry, because many of them came from sorry ass parents. As a woman, when you make a poor and selfish decision to have unprotected sex with a “no good man” because of self-pleasure, you are no better than that “no good man.” You become a “no good woman,” because your poor decision will create a life that 2 no good people may not care about enough to settle their differences to come together help raise a well-adjusted human being.

We have to do better!