TGIFF(Thank Goodness It’s Freaky Friday)
Face it, monotony is a part of life and no matter how fresh you try to keep the excitement in your life, the events are bound to become routine after a while. This is especially true for couples who have been together for a long time. While some will argue that they find ways to keep their sexual life exciting and fresh, we all know that we can’t be that creative 365 days a year, if we should be so lucky to have sex that often. The average married couple, believe it or not, only has sex 4 to 6 times a month. I was married and I can honestly say those figures were very lowball in my life.
While most of us limit our sexual experience to the bedroom, there’s a group of adventurers who like to take their sex life to new heights. The bedroom has become the bored room for them and every and anywhere else has become ideal to keep them sexually engaged. The voyeuristic types enjoy the chance of being watched by others, or even getting caught by the authorities. The adrenaline rush a person can get from performing in front of an uninvited audience is enough to keep the blood flowing endlessly. The swingers make our sex life sound tame, as they get a chance to experience different partners and remove monogamy from the relationship. I’m sure some of us can agree that having a new partner can be exciting because of the anticipation of the unknown. However, this post is about monogomous couples who want to spruce up their sex life.
My personal opinion is that sex can only be as limited as your mind. Once you remove the limitations, sex can be exciting forever, no matter how long you’ve been with your partner. Just understand that most people don’t enjoy boredom and even many more get tired of the same routine. Missionary, doggystyle, riding, even oral sex are just simple parts of sex. There’s so much more to it than that. Don’t cheat yourself, instead, you should treat yourself. Nothing should be too nasty to do to please your partner. The tongue is a very essential part of sex, use it for arousal, excitement and climax. Your hands can do wonders if you know how to use them. Start practicing using your hands to please your partner, just make sure they are clean. Your mouth is not just made for talking and eating, use your mouth to please your partner. Kiss him/her where she/he’s never been kissed before. Even your toes and feet can add pleasure to your sex life, make the best of them. Your sexual organs are not the only pleasure zone. We already know what we can get out of using our sexual organs, but how do you maximize your pleasure with them? Caress those southern lips; lick that clitoris; stimulate the anus; those breasts are not only to suck on, caress them; kiss her back; lick everything on her body; rub his chest, shoulders, legs, thighs and arms; don’t be afraid to play with the penis, it won’t bite; lick everything on his body. How about I let you use your imagination for the rest…
What are some of the things that you’re doing to spruce up your sex life?