Black Skin White Life

This blog is probably going to rub many people the wrong way, but the subject must be addressed, because it’s a phenomenon plaguing the black community. I recently read something that was quoted by Kevin Hart’s ex-wife where she said “she didn’t mind a side bitch taking over sometimes,” or something to that effect. Well, let’s open Pandora’s box and address the root of this problem. First of all, whether we like it or not, African blood runs through the veins of all black people, so it is only natural that our African instinct drive us to do certain things, and display certain behavior that are relative to our heritage. Polygamy is practiced by 26 out of 54 countries in Africa. It is a lifestyle best suited for those who believe in a village concept. We’re quick to use the old African proverb “it takes a village to raise a child,” but we have no idea how connected to polygamy that proverb actually is.  The idea of a village has much to do with a man having multiple wives and multiple children by his wives, while living in the same commune. That man is able to create his own village, using the resources from his wife and children’s labor.

I understand that all of us in the western world have been raised in the most hypocritical racist white system, where we are told that we can only have one wife or one husband. I call it hypocritical, because most white men, especially those with the financial means, almost always have more than one mistress. During slavery, their mistresses ended up being those slaves that they raped, and whose voices they silenced, because of the power of white supremacy. If you’re brown to light skinned, thank an old white rapist for having raped your great great grandparents. Anyway, since white people considered having more than one wife openly uncivilized, they decided to do it in secret in various ways. Many wealthy white businessmen have secret families. It goes to show the length they will go to hide their hypocrisy.  Let’s forward to modern times, by modern I mean we can go back 100 years and find that the phenomenon of side chicks existed way back when.  We may attached the stigma of “side chick” to this phenomenon, but black men have had children outside of their marriage since the beginning of time, and so have white men. Many of us have brothers and sisters that we don’t even know, especially if our parents were married for a long time. A lot of men take the secret of their “outside’ children to their graves with them. It’s not just a black thing, it’s rampant in the white community, but white people want to be hypocritical about their “uncivilized” behavior. The idea of a village is accepted in many countries in Africa openly, and young girls are raised to understand that custom. We live in a world where we have adopted the selfish, “me! me! me!” ways of white people, and we have lost our culture and identity through their pillaging. No one is a bigger hypocrite than Trump. He’s had many mistresses and cheated on every woman he has ever been married to, and he lies to our faces every day about everything. That is the typical white way, and the way business has been conducted by them from way back. If you don’t believe me, you can use president Thomas Jefferson as reference. Ask his family how all his black children came about? Well, John F. Kennedy, Bill Clinton and even the good reverends Jesse Jackson and Dr. Martin Luther King could not explain their need for a side chick. In Bill Clinton and Trump’s case, we don’t have enough fingers to count, since they both have an affinity for loose women and hookers. Anyway, the point is, you can be critical of men and side chick all you want, but the problem will not be resolved until a viable solution is reached.

How do we solve this problem? #1: we can look at the problem from many different angles. You can be that woman who’s tenacious and want to stay true to your convictions about a monogamous relationship, but it doesn’t mean that you’re going to find a guy who’s completely monogamous. Most men act like they are monogamous, because women won’t accept their polygamous behavior. Most husbands fantasize about other women, but if given the opportunity, they would actually live out their fantasy. Some women would live out their fantasy as well. Since these men are forced to act like their world revolves around that one special woman in their lives, they often become the best actors. #2: You can also be that tenacious woman without a man who wants her needs fulfilled, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll be fulfilled by a man who’s single. Sometimes some women desire men that are already taken. I shouldn’t even say sometimes, because some women enjoy the challenge of sleeping with another woman’s man. It’s a different type of conquest for some women.  As a matter of fact, I have met plenty of women who only date married men. They don’t want to deal with his emotional headache on a full-time basis. They send him to his wife to deal with all his bullshit. There wouldn’t be so many side chicks, if women weren’t willing to play the side role. Given the opportunity, these side chicks would gladly accept their role as second wives, but society doesn’t want to accept that fact. #3: Black men can act like the docile children of white people by forcing themselves to be monogamous and accept their fate as husbands to one woman for the rest of their lives, but it doesn’t mean their marriage will last. The divorce rate among African Americans is 70%, and the marriage rate for African American women is 52%. We tend to look at the surface when a marriage doesn’t work out, but never once have we actually taken the time to see how an additional wife may actually contribute to a union in a way that will make the union last a lifetime. Most women make the abrupt decision to end their marriage after discovering their husband might have cheated, but a lot of those women never consider that the next man they meet might also be a cheater. Only 32% of black women remarry after a divorce, and half those marriages end up in divorce again. What’s a woman to do, right? Well, if you leave it in the hands of men, you’re not going to do anything. Another woman might take the burden of a husband who has become a pain in your ass. Take a break. Let the other wife deal with him, while you get out your frustrations. A second or third wife might serve you some good, if you look at it from a selfless point of view. #4: we should take a look at the fact that black women outnumber black men in every state. So who do you think those women who can’t find a man to call their own are sleeping with? When it comes to lust, morals are out the window. First of all, most men have very little moral to begin with, so they are easily coerced into affairs. Come on, not even saintly Dr. King was faithful to his wife. All those reverends you look up to, are also cheating and leaving their wives for younger women. From Al Sharpton to Jesse Jackson, and those other pastors who are on the down low, sending naked pictures to young boys, there’s no moral compass anywhere that can be used to sustain a population of men with high morals. They are corrupted in the church, in politics, law enforcement, business and anywhere they can be found. The only solution to this problem is polygamy. Men’s insatiable appetite can only be controlled by allowing them to have as much of something that you are trying to keep from him. Most men are like children, you give them enough of the toys they like, sooner or later they’ll make one a favorite. Believe it or not, if given the opportunity to have as many wives as possible, most men would probably end up with no more than two.

I’m not necessarily advocating for polygamy, but I wanted to objectively outline some of the reasons for so many failed marriages. I truly believe polygamy would be an asset to the black community. Just think about the positive attributes such as: multiple incomes. You can buy a house big enough where all the children can be raised together and maintaining the house will be less of a problem, because there would be so many different people available to help. Financially, it would benefit the black community. Emotionally, it would benefit the women. Sexually, it would keep your husband satisfied, as well as yourself, depending on the man you marry. Psychologically, it would benefit your children, because they would learn unity and sharing.  If a woman or man is raised to be without any jealousy or envy of another woman or man, there will be no issues if they have to share their man or woman with one another. In Namibia, the nomadic tribes of Novahimba and Novazimba actually allow their visitor or friend to sleep with their wives. It’s called the “Okujepisa Omukazendu” treatment. In America, white people call it swinging. You see, they do exactly what other races do, but they always find a way to belittle other cultures. When you are raised without certain prejudices, nuances and hang-ups, you tend to see things in a different cultural manner. Of course, we can never re-calibrate our minds to accept the African way of life, because we have been in the west for too many generations. However, we have also taken from the practice of the west, “lying, deceiving, cheating, infidelity, philandering” and many other destructive behaviors that prevent us from staying married. If your husband can bring home another woman that you are fully aware he’s involved with, you would take every cautionary measure to make sure she’s safe, he’s safe, your health is not at risk, and your children’s livelihood is protected. If he’s out there doing everything behind your back, the entire family and marriage is at risk, because once he’s caught, or if he brings home a disease, or a baby is discovered, the entire family goes through a traumatic experience that the white culture has brought on us, that they don’t even know how to deal with themselves. Shows like “Sister Wives” can now be found on mainstream television, but it is not legal for a man to have more than one wife in this country. White people have managed to find ways around polygamy that benefit them, but few black people are willing to explore the benefits of polygamy, because we are all caught up with our selfishness, brought on us by the white race. White people have always found ways to have their cakes and eat it too, but black people can’t do that, because we are always in survival mode.

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The culpability of black people is enforced by white supremacy and the cops!

Let’s face  the real issue here, we wouldn’t be boycotting Starbucks, if the cops were held accountable for their racist behavior toward black people. All white people understand when they call the cops, the cops will support their bullshit, no matter what. White supremacy is backed by the police. The Black Skin White Mask coon of a police chief in Philadelphia saw absolutely nothing wrong with what his officers did, and went on record to tell the world that. According to my “Law, Education and Society” course in college, the police cannot just show up to place somebody under arrest, without first asking them to leave the premises. Those 2 men in Philly were waiting for a friend, and their presence alone was a threat to some hick manager who wanted them removed from the premises for no reason. While many of you may think this was an isolated incident, well it was not!  Another black man at another Starbucks tried to use the restroom, he was asked to leave, because he didn’t purchase anything. However, he caught a white man walking out of the bathroom who also didn’t purchase anything, but was given the code to the bathroom. I understand that many people in the world are delusional when it comes to white progress, as it relates to racism, but there has been no progress at all. Stop your delusions! The old racists passed their beliefs on to their children. The cycle of hate will only stop when all racists cease to exist. Luckily there was a liberal white woman in Philly who made it her point to scream out on video that the 2 black men did absolutely nothing that warranted their arrest, but imagine if that worker had reported these 2 men were a physical threat to other customers? You know how many black men have lost their lives because of a simple phone call from a white person to the police? It happened just last week in Sacramento, California where a man who supposedly posed a threat to police was shot 7 times in the back. How can someone pose a threat to you when they’re running away from you, and you had to shoot him in the back? That was pure unadulterated, calculated murder, orchestrated by the cops. Whenever cops are called to a scene to deal with black people, their mentality is shoot to kill, or at the very least, criminalize somebody, even when there’s no need to. A white police chief has even admitted that it’s cheaper to kill black people than to wound them. We have to get to the root of that mentality, because white people are always apprehended alive, even after they have murdered 9 or 17 people. In addition, black people should be forced to rely on white witnesses to prove their innocence to the police. In other words, our lives don’t mean shit, and our words don’t mean shit! We cannot allow these people to take away our will, our freedom, our voice and our power!

The police department is white supremacy, and even some black cops reinforce their white supremacist mentality, because a lot of them adopt the same stupid racist mentality that is taught at the police academy and practiced by all the KKK cops. Too often black cops only realize the level of racism practiced by the police when they’re out of uniform and become victims of police brutality themselves. You seldom hear of any white undercover cop, or off-duty police officers getting shot by other cops, but it’s rampant against black cops. The situation at Starbucks was a simple one, where the cops could’ve easily asked the 2 men to vacate the premises, but the abuse of power among cops against black people is the norm, because too often, these cops are not disciplined for violating the rights of black people. For some odd reason, black people are foolish enough to believe bodycams were going to change the outcome of police officers murdering black people unjustly and indiscriminately. We found out that the hard way that white people just wanted to expose to other white people how devalued black lives are. Once they get you desensitized to the murder of your own people at their hands, you’ll start to find it normal behavior, and you’re gonna get tired of standing up to them. No matter what proof they have to convict a white officer, white people are blinded by racism and white supremacy. We can continue on that same path where we are victimized by them, or we can change course by arming ourselves and defend ourselves when we are unjustly attacked by the police. We have allowed white supremacy to force us into a position of victimization for too long, and too many fake and cowardice black leaders don’t have enough balls to let black people know they have the right to arm and defend themselves against the police. No one has the right to take your life without justification, just because they’re wearing a uniform and a badge. We have to change our mentality and let these people know we are no longer going to die in vain. Nobody’s son should be shot 7 times in the back in his own backyard for carrying a cell phone, and the cops will most likely see no time behind bars for murder. We have to show valor and start averting the deaths of our loved ones. The police cannot continue to kill black people with impunity and black folks are supposed to just accept it. Fuck that! We must all be ready to stand up and fight, but more importantly, we must all be willing to put our lives on the line against these racist assholes. Otherwise, we’ll continue to sing the same old song about black people being murdered by cops for no reason every fucking day! Aren’t you tired of marching, begging and pleading for reason from a group of people who don’t understand fairness and reason? Did you forget about slavery? Why do you think they want you to forget about slavery? Until you stand up and fight back, you’re a fucking slave!