Entries by R Jeanty

How do you spruce up your sex life?

TGIFF(Thank Goodness It’s Freaky Friday) Face it, monotony is a part of life and no matter how fresh you try to keep the excitement in your life, the events are bound to become routine after a while. This is especially true for couples who have been together for a long time. While some will argue that they […]

You don’t think your kids are paying attention?

Too many people don’t give a second thought to what they’re exposing their children to. In my past work experience, I noticed how too many mothers carelessly dragged their kids to the welfare office to talk to their caseworker about foodstamps, section 8 and other necessities for their families. Often times, they are frustrated and […]

What is the method of your success?

Often times we see folks that are successful and we wonder how we can obtain the same level of success as those we admire. However, it’s always too personal to go up to a stranger to ask them about their path to success. I’m hoping this post will encourage some folks to come share with us their […]

Why are you still in that closet?

Man, I’m a little fed up with this whole men on the downlow thing. The latest alleged casualty in this is Mr. Cee from hot 97, but really, fellas, if your choice is to be with a man, why hide it? I think that sisters have enough to deal with already, and to add the […]

So you think you’re a good man?

Most men today get easily offended when their manhood is challenged because of irresponsibilities. How can you call yourself a man when your priority is a new car, but your child’s mother is not getting half the amount of your monthly car payment for child support? How can you call yourself a man when your objective […]

How far would you go to please your mate?

Keeping up with the Freaky Friday theme, I would like to talk about the limit or limitless ways that a person is willing to please a partner. With the emergence of a new sexual revolution fueled by music viedos and other films and television shows, people are becoming more open-minded when it comes to sex […]

Why are so many professional black women single?

The divorce rate in America has gone up in the last decade like the space shuttle shooting into space, but one group in particular has been affected by this problem more than any other, the African-American community. Personally, I have met so many successful black women that are single that if polygamy wasn’t illegal, I […]

Do women encourage deadbeat behavior?

It is my belief that a man can only get away with so much because women allow that to happen. If you have a child with a man, it is only fair that you make him contribute emotionally, spiritually and financially to that child’s life. Whether you get the court involved and you decide to […]